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title: "Gai Jatra: The Festival Where Grief Meets Satire"
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# Gai Jatra: The Festival Where Grief Meets Satire

> Families who have lost someone walk through the old cities with cows and costumed children, while comedians mock the powerful. A guide to a very Nepali day.

In August, on the day after the full moon, the old cities of the Kathmandu Valley hold a procession that is at once a memorial for the dead and a carnival. Gai Jatra, the "festival of cows", is the day on which bereaved families honour relatives who died during the past year, and on which the whole community is given licence to laugh, dress up and poke fun at those in authority.
The origin
The custom is traced to the seventeenth-century king Pratap Malla of Kathmandu. When his young son died, the queen was inconsolable. To show her that she was not alone in her loss, the king ordered every family in the city that had suffered a death that year to join a procession past the palace. When she still did not smile, he invited the people to come in costume and perform jokes and mockery. At last the queen laughed, and the king decreed that satire should be part of the day ever after.
Behind this lies an older belief. The cow is sacred to Hindus, and it is said that the soul of the departed reaches the gates of the afterlife more easily by holding the tail of a cow.
The procession
Each family that has lost a member takes part. Traditionally they lead a decorated cow through the streets along a set route. Where no cow is available, a young boy from the family is dressed as one, with a paper headdress bearing a painted cow's face and horns, or as a holy man in saffron.
Relatives walk alongside, and neighbours and well-wishers line the route to hand the participants fruit, sweets, flatbread, milk and small coins. Musicians accompany each group. The mood is more reflective than mournful: families take comfort in seeing how many others share their experience.
The comedy
Alongside the memorial walk, people appear in outlandish costumes, cross-dress, wear masks and perform skits. Humorous street shows, cartoons and special newspaper editions lampoon politicians, bureaucrats and social follies with a freedom that was, for much of Nepal's history, permitted on this day alone. Theatres and television stage comedy programmes throughout the week, and the festival is regarded as the birthplace of modern Nepali satire.
In recent years, Kathmandu's LGBTQ community has held its pride parade on Gai Jatra, drawing on the day's long tradition of costume and reversal.
Three cities, three styles
Kathmandu. The procession winds through the old town and past the former royal palace at Hanuman Dhoka in the morning. Costumed children, cows and bands create a colourful if somewhat scattered parade. The Durbar Square is the best place to watch.
Bhaktapur. The most elaborate and most photogenic celebration. Here the festival extends over about a week. Each bereaved family builds a tall bamboo structure wrapped in cloth, topped with horns of straw and an umbrella, with a portrait of the deceased fixed to the front. These are carried through the brick lanes in a long procession. Groups of young people follow, performing a traditional stick dance in pairs, striking sticks together in rhythm as they advance, with drums and cymbals driving them on. The energy builds through the afternoon.
Patan. A quieter procession, focused on the Durbar Square and Buddhist courtyards, with its own costumed participants.
Watching well
- Choose Bhaktapur if you can see only one. Arrive by late morning and find a spot on the steps of a temple in Taumadhi or Dattatreya Square, or along the main lane between them. The procession continues into the evening.

- In Kathmandu, be at the Durbar Square by eight or nine.

- Stand to the side. The stick dancers move fast and need room.

- Join in the giving. Buy a bag of sweets or fruit and hand them to the children in the procession, as local onlookers do.

Being considerate
Remember what lies beneath the festivity. The families walking have lost a parent, a child or a spouse in the past twelve months.
- Photograph the procession as a whole freely, but be sensitive about close-ups of people carrying portraits, and ask where you can.

- Do not block the route for a picture.

- If someone tells you about the relative they are honouring, listen. A simple expression of sympathy is enough.

- Laughing at the costumes and jokes is entirely appropriate. That is their purpose.

What it says about Nepal
Gai Jatra places sorrow and laughter side by side on the same street, on purpose. It says that death comes to every household, that mourning is easier in company and that humour is a legitimate answer to loss and to power alike. Few festivals anywhere express so much so lightly.

Source: https://lokoon.com/blog/gai-jatra